“Thank you” is a powerful means of communication.
- It completes a connection between offer and acceptance.
- It embodies an appreciation for gifts or value bestowed.
- In essence, it expresses an awareness of connection between one person and another.
And “thank you” is not just a phrase. Giving thanks can take just about any form of appreciation, from a few kind words to a year-end bonus.
We’re taught to say “thank you” from the day we can speak. For many of us, unfortunately, the concept is often relegated to the same category as “good morning” or “How ya doin’?” — both on the offering and receiving end.
We all know how it feels to be deeply appreciated; how often do we show the same to others? A few simple, sincere phrases, clearly stated, go a long way toward making someone’s day, whether that person is a family member or a member of your staff.
I don’t know about you, but making someone’s day makes my day, and I relish every opportunity I get to make that happen.
Then there’s also the art of accepting appreciation. When someone says thanks and we reply “Oh, it’s nothing,” are we diminishing their emotion? “It was really my pleasure” is a great response (especially when it’s true).
Now I’m not advocating a Love Fest. Nor do I believe that the bank teller always cares so deeply when you cash a check.
All I’m getting at is this: the art of giving thanks shouldn’t be taken for granted, especially when you consider its ability to build even the simplest ties, motivate positive action and make the world a better place.
So…
Thank you.
Thank you for allowing me to share my thoughts with you in the pages of this blog.
I’m grateful — and honored — you take the time to read it.
Hopefully, you find as much value in its pages as I find in writing it.
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Appreciation shown is the sincerest form of flattery. It is also the realization that with the help and friendship of others, life is made easier and a whole lot richer. Thank you Rich for these thoughts and reminding me how much I have to be thankful for. Wishing you the very best Thanksgiving and many many more experiences in the days and years to come to be thankful for.
Posted 25 Nov 2009 at 9:42 am ¶Thank you as well Annette. May we all go from strength to strength!
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